By and large most men get an ego boost when they know they've blown their woman's mind. He wants to go to sleep knowing he rocked her world! A lot of women know this which explains why so many of them fake orgasms. Unfortunately for them that approach backfires because it causes him to believe he's pleasing her when he really isn't. Two ways you can approach this that can help if he really cares about you. The direct way is to tell him how much you love it when he The other way is make it a "game" similar to "Simon says". Naturally you'd have him follow your instructions first.
Once a man sees the kind of reaction he gets from giving a woman what she wants he will want to make that happen over and over again! Light some candles, play some music, and make it an erotic experience. What is the absolute best way to tell a guide he's doing something the wrong way in bed? Let's say he doesn't take advice well outside of the bedroom so the fear is he'll react the same way inside the bedroom.
I'd love to hear your advice I've come to have a very analytical mind when I look back on my past relationships in this area. I actually included this article in my book. Very interesting hub, you sure have compiled some useful tips in here. Read from start to finish, i completely agree with all you points in here. One question though Aside from finding a "compatible partner" our mental thoughts and beliefs dictate whether we enjoy ourselves or not.
Of all places one should be the most relaxed in their own bed! I believe the more comfortable someone is in their skin the less they worry about coming off as silly in bed.
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It also helps if your partner encourages you to be expressive. Great hub. Had my full attention from start to finish. I'm much shy when it comes to bedroom talk. The words usually stay in my head since im often afraid of sounding silly lol. Yes, silence has a way of making people feel less connected or detached. SandCastles, Neither woman or man is a trained seal. This article is really about what separates one woman from another woman. Each of decides what it is we want to be good at or what we will do to please ourselves and our mates.
Much of sex is self taught. Only you know what makes you feel good. Open communication with your partner helps you to learn what makes them feel good. Yup, my man doesn't like it when I become "silent" on bed. He prefers the "You know what" sounds. Got him into the mood. Voted up. DDE, Thanks for stopping by and posting your comment as well as for the vote up too! Thanks again for your comments dashingscorpio. That's interesting. So that's the norm these days. I think for some women, there has to be an emotional bond so they can trust the person or it could turn into a Robert De Niro Cape Fear situation.
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You're right, there has to be a balance and not power trips. I think people either fit or they don't and you can't make them fit.
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SandCastles, In this day and age most people have sex before they commit to one another. In fact for a lot of these people "sexual incompatibility" will keep the relationship from moving towards commitment. Apparently they don't want to become "emotionally invested" in someone only to find out afterwards they are not sexually in sync or there is not a good "fit" for them physically.
Each of is entitled to have our own set of "deal breakers". I've learned over the years that there is no "right" or "wrong" in relationships per se.
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There is only "agree" and "disagree". Ultimately we are all looking for someone that shares our same values and naturally agrees with us on the major things in life.
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But sometimes couples get so carried away trying to spice up their sex life that they forget to just have fun. There are going to be highs and lows; that's normal and it isn't a good idea to just run out and buy some spice. It could hurt the relationship. Passion changes; how about just having fun and adding some humour into the mix. I think people take sex too seriously.
Note: I do think sex should be between two committed people only or there is no intimacy and it is not special. SandCastles, Thanks so much for taking the time to read and post your comment to my hub.
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However it appears there is a large market for books and workshops for couples who are "in love" and remain unhappy with their sex life. Sometimes two people come together with lower or higher sex drives than their mate. It's possible one person is more sexually adventurous while their mate content with a missionary.
I do however believe if you are "in love" with someone you do look for ways to make your partner happy and vice versa. Never the less there are many couples in love which struggle in finding ways to keep passion alive. Love serves as a motivation for us to want to improve things in our relationships. See 61 more comments. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. HubPages and Hubbers authors may earn revenue on this page based on affiliate relationships and advertisements with partners including Amazon, Google, and others.
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